The First Step In Making A Woman Addicted To You
Guys are all over me asking for the secret to having a woman lust after them. Then they don’t beleive tha nswer that i give them.
Well, they wanted the secret and they got the real truth from me. If they don’t want to use the information, well, that leaves more quality women for the reast of us, right?
So what is that secret, what is the real truth about having a woman addicted to you?
Well, not so fast.
The first step in having a woman gushing over you is to be in control of your own emotions AND have the confidence in yourself that PROVES you are a quality man that DESERVES a quality woman.
Just as creativity expresses emotion, fear batters down hope. When you’re a guy that FEELS that he doesn’t DESERVE a great woman, then you become a self-fulfilling prophesy and a cycle of rejection that squeezes the dating life slowly out of you.
Is this DARK and TRUE enough for you?
The negative emotions that you let CONTROL your DESTINY with WOMEN need to be bansihed from surfacing ever again!
And how do you get rid of your negative emotions?
You face them.
In this case, for this first step, you need to write down all the fears you have about women. Every last one, from approaching women, to making small talk, conversations, asking for a date, asking for a second date… everything that comes to mind when you let your mind roll over the words “Women” and “Dating”.
Write them down. Take several days if you have to. I know it took me about 6 days to write everything down, and as I wrote other fears would be identified too.
Then, the second step, is to create an ACTION PLAN about CONFRONTING these woman-centric fears.
Afraid to approach women: Write down sevral scenarios where you approach women and are rejected by them. Think of all the ways women have said NO to YOU and approach women differently, already knowing how they will say NO, explore what needs to be said to PROVE they NEED to say YES to you.
If you refuse to do this second step then you EMBRACE REJECTION and all the crappy lies you tell yourself about why you can’t date women become TRUE for YOU.
Your FEARS win. YOU lose.
Sure, by not approaching women you never have to face rejection… sad but true.
Many men select this “safe route” throughout their lives. Without taking any RISKS they also have LESS failure, despite the very true fact that they have failed THEMSELVES!
Last thought:
When you next approach a woman, start off by asking yourself “How would I approach her if I already knew her and she loved me?”
The Biggest Secret A Guy Needs To Know About Attracting Women
Let’s get one thing straight, right off the block:
I don’t believe a word that supposed “dating gurus” tell you about picking up women, about the tactics that they teach to steal a woman away from her boyfriend, about how they distort the truth and lead you to believe that “tactics work because women want them to”.
Let me tell you, you don’t need to “control” women… you don’t need to resort to tests to break a woman’s self-confidence down so you can date her and treat her like an object, with bad ulterior objectives in mind.
What I want you to know is how to “test” a woman, not to see her breaking down to your control, but to determine her character, to test her to find out how to understand her, and on what basis a relationship could be started, if at all.
These supposed “dating gurus” want you to be able to pickup any woman you want, and if you don’t succeed, well, maybe you need more information from the $tore. They believe in quantity, not quality, and this leads to failure for you and more ca$h for them.
You need to learn about quality and how to find great women not just any woman, to date.
When you’re single and available, not every woman is a target, just as not every woman is of a quality that you would want to date.
Have you had any relationships in the past that were broken by jealousy and fear? Lack of trust issues?
The negative emotions that fed these feelings easily overcome the good qualities in women that attracted you in the first place… unless, of course, you didn’t understand how and why to attract quality women in the first place.
Back then your emotions had no background, no experience, with women of quality. So they did what emotions do, they follow the negative path, and allow something good to be replaced with something bad… and WHAMMO, a breakup.
It’s time to put to rest all these bad things.
You need to be able to identify them, give these bad emotions a name, and file them away, as exposed bad tricks on your conscious behavior.
This internal change, this challenge I place before you, will help you to grow, mature, and prepare yourself to meet quality, beautiful and trustworthy women. Not by the hundreds, not by the dozens, but by singular contacts, real impressions and tests of “character” that will reveal to you the inner beauty of the woman you seek to place into your life.
Let the liars lie to other men, let the women of low self-esteem and low self-image be the fodder of another guy.
Integrity without fear, no fear of rejection, or lowering of standards, and self-respect that brings you, yourself, into a whole new level of being… of attraction… of interactions with women.
Your first step is to open your mind to this new possibility of being yourself, with set standards and an ability to seek out and attract women of quality.
