The First Step In Making A Woman Addicted To You
Guys are all over me asking for the secret to having a woman lust after them. Then they don’t beleive tha nswer that i give them.
Well, they wanted the secret and they got the real truth from me. If they don’t want to use the information, well, that leaves more quality women for the reast of us, right?
So what is that secret, what is the real truth about having a woman addicted to you?
Well, not so fast.
The first step in having a woman gushing over you is to be in control of your own emotions AND have the confidence in yourself that PROVES you are a quality man that DESERVES a quality woman.
Just as creativity expresses emotion, fear batters down hope. When you’re a guy that FEELS that he doesn’t DESERVE a great woman, then you become a self-fulfilling prophesy and a cycle of rejection that squeezes the dating life slowly out of you.
Is this DARK and TRUE enough for you?
The negative emotions that you let CONTROL your DESTINY with WOMEN need to be bansihed from surfacing ever again!
And how do you get rid of your negative emotions?
You face them.
In this case, for this first step, you need to write down all the fears you have about women. Every last one, from approaching women, to making small talk, conversations, asking for a date, asking for a second date… everything that comes to mind when you let your mind roll over the words “Women” and “Dating”.
Write them down. Take several days if you have to. I know it took me about 6 days to write everything down, and as I wrote other fears would be identified too.
Then, the second step, is to create an ACTION PLAN about CONFRONTING these woman-centric fears.
Afraid to approach women: Write down sevral scenarios where you approach women and are rejected by them. Think of all the ways women have said NO to YOU and approach women differently, already knowing how they will say NO, explore what needs to be said to PROVE they NEED to say YES to you.
If you refuse to do this second step then you EMBRACE REJECTION and all the crappy lies you tell yourself about why you can’t date women become TRUE for YOU.
Your FEARS win. YOU lose.
Sure, by not approaching women you never have to face rejection… sad but true.
Many men select this “safe route” throughout their lives. Without taking any RISKS they also have LESS failure, despite the very true fact that they have failed THEMSELVES!
Last thought:
When you next approach a woman, start off by asking yourself “How would I approach her if I already knew her and she loved me?”
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